Challenges of dating divorced man
It’s important to find out why his last relationship failed so you know what baggage he might have.
If he has children, you will also need to be very secure to be able to deal with his ex-wife.
I tried to explain to some of these men about the error of their ways, but most of them seemed hopelessly whipped.
Theyd say things like, If she really likes me, we wont have to go through all this dating stuff, or, I don't play games, I just ask women straight out if they like me or not".
No matter how enlightened we are as a culture, it is still uncommon for men to be the primary caregivers, and women the financial provider.
Despite the security and sense of identity traditional marriages provide, they enable men to neglect the particular areas of personal growth that separation and divorce forced them to face.
But much of this too is to avoid the complex array of losses and challenges divorce presents a man.
Many of these losses though, are a result men’s typical, if not default, role within marriage of being the financial provider.
All the check boxes are ticked, except for one – he is a divorcee.
As expected, women initiating divorce ultimately identify their spouse as the “true” initiator.
The irony is that men, despite their own dissatisfaction are more likely to resist divorce.
by Larry O'Connor, MFT Men’s Challenges with Separation and Divorce “Women grieve the loss of a relationship before ending it, men grieve it after it has ended,” may say it best.
Statistically, 65-70% of divorces are filed by women (90% in college-educated couples).