Dating don ts
No one wants to hear about the fun times you had with them or how they broke your heart.
Don’t talk about your ex, whether it’s in a good way or bad.
Don’t obsess over that weird nerve-induced thing you blurted out (e.g.
Sloooow down there, buddy – no matter how into this person you are, don’t go changing your Facebook relationship status just yet!
So make sure you’re both involved in some kind of healthy community of friends and family. Please promise me you’ll ask the opinion of people who love you and you look up to?
It’s easier to be blinded by love when there’s no background to reveal his/her true colors.
”I don’t know, but I sure wished there was another way. No need to be in a big, fat hurry DO take the time to assess the other person’s character. So don’t convince yourself that you know it all and understand everything.
Getting involved in a relationship – and deciding who you want to spend the rest of your life with – is a HUGE deal. No one has it all together, so why not embrace the fact that you’ll probably need to learn a thing or two in the process?
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.
, like, “a guy told me he was looking for a girlfriend by next year so he’d have someone to split rent with.” Then there was the charmer who told his date about the time he “got wasted, peed and mopped it up with his clothes, and then wore them.” Um, yeah.
, we’d like to assume you know better than to make mistakes like these.
Leslie Wardman is the matchmaker at Ambiance Matchmaking, which she founded over a decade ago.
She talks to an innumerable amount of clients on a daily basis––whether it be evaluating their date, arranging their date, or prepping them for their date. To lead a successful dating life, one in which you are constantly learning and improving and thriving, you must embody the following: 1.